• lysace 8 hours ago |
    Well duh.
  • more_corn 8 hours ago |
    So people feel free to speak candidly?
    • Arainach 8 hours ago |
      This isn't about people speaking candidly. It's about not hurting the feelings of people who do and work on bad things and allowing them to still get invited to events without fearing any consequences for their actions.

      It's the same reason Kissinger still got invites to Manhattan social events (and, bizarrely, Clinton campaign events) long after it was known that he was a traitor and a war criminal.

      • khazhoux 7 hours ago |
        No, I think it’s about not having to fear being retweeted publicly for what you intended to be private discussions.
        • sneak 7 hours ago |
          No. The Chatham House Rule only bars the attribution of the statements, not the sharing of the statements or the things they contain.

          It’s not simply for privacy or nondisclosure. You are free to disclose, the discussions are not private.

          • khazhoux 7 hours ago |
            That's what I said: it's to prevent people from being quoted publicly.
            • sneak 7 hours ago |
              People can still be quoted verbatim publicly.
              • khazhoux 6 hours ago |
                Maybe I'm confused then. So one would be permitted to post on Twitter:

                "khazhoux said yesterday: 'Megalopolis is the greatest film of the 21st century'"?

                I thought the point was you can't attribute -- no names. And without a name, it's not actually a public quoting...

      • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
        > not hurting the feelings of people who do and work on bad things

        Yes, the Chatham House Rule is practically designed to exclude people who have an immutable black-and-white worldview.

        • mmooss 6 hours ago |
          How so? It would seem to encourage people to say thoughtless, shallow things, among more open things.
    • mmooss 6 hours ago |
      Or irresponsibly, ignorantly, stupidly, recklessly ...
      • falcor84 4 hours ago |
        As social animals, we think, learn and grow by interacting with others. It's absolutely ok to say stupid things you aren't sure about, and I think it's generally better that people do so in smaller personal settings rather than broadcasting to the internet at large.
  • givemeethekeys 8 hours ago |
    They need to discuss how to unwind 20 years of equality, MeToo, DEI bullshit without being quoted for having the wrong opinion.

    The bullwhip effect applied to sociology is in full swing.

    • laidoffamazon 8 hours ago |
      Which wrong opinion are you most afraid of divulging?
      • bawolff 8 hours ago |
        Regardless of the rightness or wrongness of the grandparent's views, i think this comment demonstrates why the gp might feel cautious about giving their honest views on the subject.
        • 01HNNWZ0MV43FF 7 hours ago |
          I've always just given my honest views online under pseudonyms.

          Like that I think gasoline should cost more.

          • spencerflem 7 hours ago |
            I'm willing to say that under my real name ;)
        • laidoffamazon 5 hours ago |
          This sounds like you're chilling my speech
      • khazhoux 7 hours ago |
        Any opinion which is even slightly critical of MeToo and DEI programs.
      • Temporary_31337 7 hours ago |
        How about South Africa not doing so well currently? It could be viewed through a racial lens but it means you can’t objectively discuss and hopefully help the situation. IMO this is exactly an example of where such closed rules may legitimately help. In the process of brainstorming you are bound to say something stupid or illegal but that’s the whole idea of brainstorming- to throw ideas and see what sticks
        • TMWNN 7 hours ago |
          >How about South Africa not doing so well currently?

          I recently read a book review that discussed South Africa today. One of the many points it made about the dire state of things is that the air force planes that flew overhead during Mandela's inauguration were, a decade later, completely inoperable. <https://www.thepsmiths.com/p/review-south-africas-brave-new-...>.

          • manquer 7 hours ago |
            Why is that shocking? It would be the case no matter how they do as a country

            As a long it was a white government there was lot of monetary support and knowledge transfer to South Africa, all the way to building nuclear weapons those collaborations stopped once the racial profile changed.

            overtime that means complex technologies like military aircraft which are difficult to keep flying anytime will stop working as South Africa was and is not equipped or can afford to maintain them on their own.

            no nation which flies f-35s can keep them flying if they are not in trump’s good graces now.

            This is why countries like china or India or few others who can afford to, invest heavily to build their domestic defense infrastructure.

            • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
              You're making the point for why people who are not South African can have interesting and meaningful conversations about South Africa. All while possibly expressing views that are incorrect but still interesting to consider and respond to.
              • manquer 4 hours ago |
                The irony is not lost to me, my comments without lived experience are one reason why we shouldn’t do it

                My objection is bigger than that though, it is independent of the merit or quality of the discourse , unwelcome discourse is impolite even if it is sound.

                • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
                  > my comments without lived experience are one reason why we shouldn’t do it

                  This is a fair rule for you to live your life by. I think it crosses a line when someone insists it be one everyone follow.

                  I personally got value from the comment about South Africa, and that’s despite knowing South Africans. (Their “lived experience” as non-military non-historian non-aviation South Africans is sort of irrelevant to questions of military aviation history.)

                  • manquer 4 hours ago |
                    Nobody is expecting anyone to follow someone else principles.

                    You and OP should follow the principles that you feel best.

                    It wasn’t a mere discussion on military aviation history, context matters, the implication here is post apartheid the government is corrupt and incompetent, it was corrupt before too just propped up better by foreign powers.

                    • JumpCrisscross an hour ago |
                      > the implication here is post apartheid the government is corrupt and incompetent, it was corrupt before too just propped up better by foreign powers

                      A discussion about which one can knowledgeably have without any South African “lived experience,” apart from that of people then in that government.

                      Like, a group of diplomats in Jburg could probably have a more-informed discussion of American politics and history than a random assortment of Americans.

                • s1artibartfast 4 hours ago |
                  forming opinions should not be limited to lived experience because people (and states) interact in a shared world.

                  Our personal opinions govern how we interact with others.

                  The alternative is greater ignorance.

                  • manquer 4 hours ago |
                    Forming opinions should not need anything yes, however promoting or publishing that others will consume should be based on stronger foundations don’t you think ?
                    • s1artibartfast 3 hours ago |
                      Not really. That is how humans learn and evolve. I think it is ok for people to be wrong.

                      I think effort should go into honesty, humility, and open mindedness.

                      I'm sure someone can have different insights from their lives experience which should be recognized, but that doesn't mean they should trump all else.

                      • manquer 2 hours ago |
                        I don't disagree with the spirit of your argument and lived experience should not trump all, it should have only some weight and other points should qualify their statements clearly.

                        We live in the age of disinformation, influencers, and anti-intellectualism that actively dismissive qualified sources, we have to put value in source quality, while not completely dismissing the ones without them.

            • TMWNN 6 hours ago |
              > Why is that shocking? It would be the case no matter how they do as a country

              From the review that I cited and you didn't bother to read:

              >A little over a decade later and that same South African Air Force was no longer able to fly. It wasn’t for lack of planes: new ones were procured from European arms manufacturers in an astonishingly expensive and legendarily corrupt deal. But once purchased the planes rotted from lack of maintenance and languished in hangers for lack of anybody able to fly them. Most of the qualified pilots and technicians had been purged, and most of the remainder had resigned. The air force did technically still have pilots, after all it would be a bit embarrassing not to, but those pilots were chosen for patronage reasons and didn’t technically have any idea how to fly a fighter jet.

              There's more, if you care to actually read it.

        • aliasxneo 7 hours ago |
          > In the process of brainstorming you are bound to say something stupid or illegal but that’s the whole idea of brainstorming- to throw ideas and see what sticks

          That's a great point. One thing I've not enjoyed in modern corporate culture is the mental gymnastics required to usher out a statement that couldn't be interpreted as offensive to anyone on the planet. It's not like I'm _trying_ to be offensive, but as the number of rules governing speech increases, it becomes difficult to have conversations that are not laden with newspeak.

          Removing that cognitive load is bound to leave more brainpower for the task at hand.

        • manquer 7 hours ago |
          > South Africa not doing so well currently?

          Unless it is group of South African expats why should we brainstorming?

          Is South Africa asking for help ? Either for ideas or for money? Or is there genocide or other basic human rights abuses that we cannot but intervene.

          The presumption that we can solve or think about their problems better than them is where it is offensive not what is being said, people are more than capable of finding their own solutions to their own problems.

          • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
            > Unless it is group are South African expats why should we brainstorming?

            Why is this an inappropriate topic to discuss?

            > presumption that we can solve or think about their problems better than them

            You're the only one who presumed this. (It's also presumptuous to assume that nobody outside your own context can be helpful to you.)

            • manquer 7 hours ago |
              > You're the only one who presumed this

              I didn’t say you can’t be helpful, but if not being asked that is the definition of presumption .

              > Why is this an inappropriate topic to discuss?

              It would be same as my neighbor discussing how to fix my problems with my wife or Mexicans having leadership conferences on how to prevent the raise of Trump . Same as how it feels for citizens when Elon Musk is doing now in UK, Germany or France

              Domestic intervention or influence by foreign actors no matter if well intentioned or not is inappropriate

              • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
                > if not being asked that is the definition of presumption

                If I want to have a discussion about South Africa, that's between me and whomever I'm speaking to. South Africa doesn't have a global veto on conversations about itself.

                > would be same as my neighbor discussing how to fix my problems with my wife

                If they're having a conversation in their house about your relationship, I don't see the issue. It's rude. But it may also be interesting or even instructive to their own situations.

                • manquer 4 hours ago |
                  > If they're having a conversation in their house about your relationship

                  It is not private though, we are not talking about diplomats doing it in confidential communications, nobody is objecting to that .

                  What we are describing is equivalent to having a public conversation in the street in front of your home where you can see them having it

                  • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
                    > What we are describing is equivalent to having a public conversation in the street in front of your home where you can see them having it

                    Still rude, but nothing more.

                    • manquer 4 hours ago |
                      > Rude, inappropriate, presumptuous, offensive .

                      All degrees of the same thing ? And the degree in the eyes of the subject

          • graemep 2 hours ago |
            > Unless it is group of South African expats why should we brainstorming?

            Why not? British people discussed the US election and Trump, lots of Americans express opinions on Britain, everyone expresses opinions about Russia and Ukraine, etc.

            I would say that people's opinions about countries they do not know first hand are often (if not usually) worthless, but I cannot imagine that in any of the above cases (or similar) many people would say they have no reason not to have opinions.

        • laidoffamazon 5 hours ago |
          > In the process of brainstorming you are bound to say something stupid or illegal but that’s the whole idea of brainstorming

          Illegal? I don't think that's true, not since ~1989 in South Africa anyway.

      • givemeethekeys 7 hours ago |
        I was about to provide a fairly large list, but maybe something general is better:

        You know that there is a "wrong opinion" that'll get you in trouble when you and conservatives begin to nod in agreement with George Carlin, even though you've always thought of yourself as liberal.

        You might even be an immigrant and a person of color who prefers to date the same sex, and yet, you're going to keep your mouth shut because anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of public opinion.

      • ben_w 7 hours ago |
        Surely this is a question where no answer can be simultaneously true and well-considered? (EDIT: and specific).

        If they think bees are secretly plotting to overthrow the Welsh government, but are afraid to say so, they're not going to willingly reveal that they have anti-apiary tendencies in response to a direct question.

      • batch12 7 hours ago |
        Which opinions are not wrong? Is it every one I don't hold or is there a database of rightthink I can reference? How can we have discussions and change minds if we can't communicate what we really think?
  • aliasxneo 8 hours ago |
    People are not bound to follow this rule, correct? As in, there's no legal consequence?

    > Instead, his groups have moved to signing NDAs or explicitly stating that conversations are not to be shared externally.

    This seems a bit better, albeit with more work.

    • bawolff 8 hours ago |
      Not everything has to be legal. The consequence is you don't get invited back and some people might think less of you.

      Legally enforcing every social norm is dystopian.

      • aliasxneo 7 hours ago |
        > Legally enforcing every social norm is dystopian.

        But I didn't say that? I was genuinely unsure of whether this was something that could be taken to court if someone violated it. If it's socially bound, and the purpose is to increase free speech, I find that less compelling in today's culture.

        • ghaff 3 hours ago |
          Anything can be taken to court. I expect, in general, people get mad at the person who broke the rule, they don't get invited back to future iterations, and they suffer reputational damage. When I've been in that sort of situation, the rule is made clear and no one breaks it--at least publicly.
      • manquer 7 hours ago |
        Only if they associate their name with the disclosure ?

        anonymous sources to media is pretty common way to share information.

        • bawolff 6 hours ago |
          Given the chatham house rules specificly allow that, its kind of a moot point.
          • manquer 3 hours ago |
            I should have been clearer.

            Anonymous source in the meeting leaking to news media that person X said something controversial in this summit .

            Since nobody would know the anonymous source itself , social norms like being shamed or not being invited in the future will not work is the point

      • sp527 7 hours ago |
        > Legally enforcing every social norm is dystopian

        Persecuting people for their beliefs by exploiting loopholes (e.g. blast on social media, bully their employer, etc) is also pretty dystopian, don't you think?

        And it's not like the persecutors ever give you the full story. For example, the reporting on Meta ending DEI didn't want you to know their rather logical view of the situation (discrimination on the basis of immutable characteristics is wrong). What fraction of people actually believe in giving a boost to certain candidates purely on the basis of race? Certainly not enough for the persecutors to allow that argument to be broadcast widely.

        • bawolff 6 hours ago |
          > Persecuting people for their beliefs by exploiting loopholes (e.g. blast on social media, bully their employer, etc) is also pretty dystopian, don't you think?

          Sometimes it can be. More than one thing can be dystopian.

        • llamaimperative 4 hours ago |
          What do you think “the marketplace of ideas” actually is, if not talking shit about people with shitty ideas?

          Such a ridiculously overloaded use of the word “persecution.”

    • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
      > seems a bit better, albeit with more work

      Are the NDAs signed between attendees and the host? That puts the host in the awkward position of having to enforce the NDAs, even if the injured party is one of the guests.

      • falcor84 4 hours ago |
        Don't you mean, the offending party?
        • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
          No. If you, me and Bob sign an NDA and I leak your secrets, you’re the injured party.
          • falcor84 4 hours ago |
            So I'm still confused - why would the host feel awkward protecting the injured party? Am I missing some implication of enforcing the NDA?
            • JumpCrisscross 3 hours ago |
              > why would the host feel awkward protecting the injured party?

              Suing is time-consuming and expensive.

    • seabass-labrax 7 hours ago |
      If the rule is given as a condition of attendance, then it could reasonably be considered a contractual obligation. The event organizer could then sue for damages on the basis of breach of contact. The extent of those damages would be related to how much reputational damage the venue or event organizer suffered, and the potential loss of future attendance caused by that.

      In addition, both the subject of a secret conversation and the participants of that conversation could sue someone for disclosing the discussion on the basis of libel. My understanding of USA law is that libel has a very high threshold and is therefore rarely litigated, but in other jurisdictions, such as the UK, libel can be as simple as saying something true with the intent to hurt the subject's reputation.

      Many people try to put as much as possible into bespoke, written contracts, but usually a mixture of common law and implicit contracts is adequate to litigate almost anything considered harmful by society. I doubt the NDA is actually needed as long as the Chatham House rule is made clear.

  • bawolff 8 hours ago |
    Seems pretty obvious why in a world where if you misspeak or say something ill considered it can be all over twitter and have serious personal and professional ramifications.

    Regardless of how well meaning people are in their desire to hold people to account for bad views, it does have a chilling effect, and you can't learn if you don't have a safe place to make mistakes.

    • MichaelZuo 7 hours ago |
      Isn’t there a danger that if the rule is selectively enforced, for whatever reasons, that it will actually decrease the credibility of the participants/organizers?
    • cmdli 7 hours ago |
      Alternatively, it’s a way for bad faith actors to spread their beliefs while not having to worry about their reputation. Many people with power are only hurt through public opinion, so this is the way they try to gain control over that.
      • throw112312 3 hours ago |
        This is not what I observed in the last 8 years. People with power (both D and R) get away with anything while individuals suffer for the slightest infractions.

        Any given senate hearing or political speech would lead to dozens of expulsions in a standard censored software company.

        It is the small people who need protection.

        • AlexandrB 18 minutes ago |
          Yup. The most obvious example is Donald Trump himself. Instead of suffering consequences for any of the things he's said, he has been elected to president of the United States. Twice! Meanwhile if you repeated what he says verbatim in your workplace you might find yourself gone by next week.
    • ryandrake 6 hours ago |
      If you really believe something, say it loudly and proudly and sign your name to it. If you're not willing to have it attributed to you because it will make you look bad, then maybe you should take a moment to think about where those beliefs come from.
      • bawolff 6 hours ago |
        How do you make progress on beliefs if you have to be 100% on board with every view you express?
      • TheBruceHimself 6 hours ago |
        Well, there is a matter of safety, and not wanting to be harassed for your opinions. Some debates are so heated that an opinion stated either way is going to expose you to potential violence if not, just verbal abuse through various channels. I think even though you should be honest about your opinion, it’s obviously better to avoid that harm so why not be anonymous?

        Personally, I’ve also found that stating your opinion, and having it recorded and known to everyone, makes it very hard for you to change your mind. We’re very harsh to people who do change their mind in such circumstances because the first thing we see is a record of them saying the opposite, and then we ask them to explain themselves and judge them like it’s some kind of fault in their character. There are opinions I had when I was 18 years old that I think abhorrent. I don’t want to be associated with them. I’m very happy there’s no record of me having these opinions. I don’t want to have to explain my past like that just to hold the opinions I have in the present. I have found that process never really ends — i’m regularly changing my opinions on beliefs overtime . I wonder what opinions I have now I will look back on with shame. so I try to make sure that I don’t have anything recorded for the end of times under my name just in case I want to distance myself.

        • llamaimperative 4 hours ago |
          Lots of conflation of verbal response versus physical violence here despite the massive gulf of difference.

          You should expect verbal pushback on your shitty ideas. You should expect physical safety nonetheless.

          • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
            > You should expect verbal pushback on your shitty ideas

            There is also shitty pushback to decent, or inchoate, ideas. I strongly push back against the notion that there shouldn’t be spaces where one can say something dumb and not be crucified for it.

            • llamaimperative 4 hours ago |
              Again: “crucified.” Say what you actually want, I don’t know how to interpret this idea. I haven’t heard of a crucifixion in recent times if I’m being honest.
        • ryandrake 3 hours ago |
          Yea. The "What's going to be taboo in 30 years" question is a good one. I don't know and I don't have a good answer to that. I personally don't worry about it because it's never occurred to me to walk up close to the line of what's acceptable. I have pretty vanilla opinions.

          But, for today, I always wonder when someone says they are going to be harassed for their opinions. Just what opinions are we talking about, here? That's what these discussions always seem to lack: Specific examples of what opinions you want to share that you are afraid to share.

          I've always liked Stephen Fry's retort to the old "You can't say anything anymore!" line. If a friend tells you that, pull them aside in private and ask them "What exactly are these things you'd like to say but can't? We're in private now, and I'll give you a judgment-free chance to say what you think you're being prevented from saying. Go ahead!" Nine times out of ten, they still won't say it, because they know it's terrible. They just want to complain that they're somehow the victim of censorship.

          • josephcsible 2 hours ago |
            > Yea. The "What's going to be taboo in 30 years" question is a good one. I don't know and I don't have a good answer to that. I personally don't worry about it because it's never occurred to me to walk up close to the line of what's acceptable. I have pretty vanilla opinions.

            30 years is a long time. Even the most vanilla of opinions can become entirely taboo in less time than that. Take gay marriage as an example. In 1996, the Defense of Marriage Act became law. Joe Biden, Harry Reid, and Chuck Schumer were among the Congressmen who voted in favor of it, and Bill Clinton signed it. In 2008, Barack Obama said "I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage." Even Obama's statement would be taboo today, let alone passing such a bill.

        • SoftTalker 2 hours ago |
          It’s less a real problem than you think. For example lots of politicians including Bill Clinton and Barack Obama were on the record as not supporting gay marriage and later said that their position on the matter had evolved.
      • ultrinket 5 hours ago |
        You might have no compunction about your beliefs, but fear being misinterpreted en masse and forever. That's what the internet does regularly.
      • causalmodels 5 hours ago |
        Who is this Publius guy anyway?
      • cgriswald 4 hours ago |
        You can post opinion A and opinion ^A and be vilified for either, right now. To say nothing of how popular belief has changed over time and place.

        Whether something “looks bad” is a basis for whether to discuss it, where to discuss it, and with whom, but not a basis for determining truth.

      • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
        > If you really believe something, say it loudly and proudly and sign your name to it

        Sure. Not every discussion involves something I really believe in.

        Also, I think it’s reasonable to believe that not all of one’s deeply-held beliefs are the public’s to know.

      • throw112312 3 hours ago |
        "There are two genders." The belief comes from watching birds and bees.

        Now, say that in 2020 in a woke software organization.

        • david-gpu 2 hours ago |
          "I will put every person in precisely one out of two boxes at my discretion, and they will be happy about it".

          Example: "I believe there are two kinds of people in the world, the righteous and the despicable. You belong with the despicable, I decided. If you disagree, you are woke".

          • rhasterx 2 hours ago |
            The amount of inferences and insinuations you draw is a perfect example of why the Chatham House Rule is needed. I wonder how biologists discuss the issue if one hypothesis is outright forbidden. Note also that Ketanji Brown Jackson evaded the question when asked in a hearing.
        • defrost 2 hours ago |
          Saying that repeatedly in most settings gets tedious for the audience who'd wonder whether you're alright.

          Saying that any relevant technical setting as a newcomer would likely be received politely although many would then point out the ground truth behind that simplification:

          Nature has many examples of physical gender not being straightforward; egg tempreture determining development in crocadiles and other reptiles for one.

          Even in humans it's less that straightforward for a little over 1% of births and decidedly undecided even by experts with all the machines that beep for about a fiftieth of 1%.

          Banging on about it in online forums using throwaway accounts is simply being a sad wannabe edge lord type.

    • DavidPiper 5 hours ago |
      The only times I've seen Chatham House rules used explicitly is when multiple companies have come together to discuss serious security concerns that affect all of them urgently (e.g. widespread 0-days, etc).

      It makes sense that you want to have candid and open discussions, and those discussions will have to leak back to the respective companies for any concerted action to be taken, but you don't want your company's security specifics to be identifiable.

      There are a number of different situations where I can see this being useful, but:

      > “In corporate culture, there’s a liberating and freeing quality to the idea that this is a safe space for me to say unpopular things and not get labeled as a conservative or racist”

      is really not one of them. I fully agree with Ocean's take that "maybe it’s just a bad solution to a worse problem," and I think there we can tease out two separate social problems:

      1. People looking for safe spaces to say racist or other discriminatory things (generally identified as a politically-right problem)

      2. The 0-strikes political climate we now (believe we) live in (generally identified as a politically-left problem)

      (Both feel like symptoms of High Conflict: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/55711592-high-conflic...)

      I think these are actually the same problem: they are both about convincing yourself that "others" are "bad" and "we" are good, and looking for every conceivable way to do so. Not just in the specific instance, but permanently and unchangeably.

      Somewhere along the way (my belief is that it was around the time social media took off, but I don't have proof for that), we forgot that we're more alike than we are different, and that people can grow and learn and change, and that both of those things are good, actually. It's not like there's some fictional past where we all agreed more than we do now, but it's how we relate to or exclude others that has changed.

      • ethbr1 4 hours ago |
        > Somewhere along the way (my belief is that it was around the time social media took off, but I don't have proof for that), we forgot that we're more alike than we are different, and that people can grow and learn and change, and that both of those things are good, actually.

        The difference between The Before Times and now is that it was historically hard to curate and communicate with a group of people who exclusively agreed with you. This had two primary consequences:

        (1) You were constantly exposed to nice people who nonetheless disagreed with you about something / everything.

        (2) It made you realize that you're the asshole, if you couldn't at least be polite to someone with different views than you.

        Now, living in a bubble is trivial. It's also the subtle default on a lot of social platforms.

        • josephcsible 4 hours ago |
          > Now, living in a bubble is trivial. It's also the subtle default on a lot of social platforms.

          Indeed. IMO, social media should have very limited facilities for blocking/muting (e.g., maximum number of accounts to block, no blocking accounts that have never previously interacted with you, and no import functionality), so that it could only be used to stop true harassment, and not to intentionally live in such a bubble. That's one of my biggest criticisms of Bluesky: the whole design of their blocklist system seems to be to intentionally encourage this sort of thing.

          • macNchz 3 hours ago |
            This assumes that mass social media is some kind of idealized “meeting of the minds” rather than like…the digital equivalent of a loud and raucous bar.

            The ability to block obnoxious and hateful people is fundamentally far, far less of causative factor of information bubbles than the pervasive engagement-driven algorithmic feeds are.

      • superfrank 4 hours ago |
        Yes. I've noticed a similar pattern online that I fucking hate. It goes "Group X is bad, so anyone who shares any belief with Group X is bad."

        Like you, I believe that we're more alike than we are different, but that mindset focuses on the small differences over the many similarities.

    • jjulius an hour ago |
      The context in this article is far more corporate and far less personal than what you describe. It's corporations and wealthy people within them hoping to not have their feet held to the fire for decisions that they know might not be appreciated by, or may actually negatively impact, the broader populace.

      That's my cynical take.

  • 01HNNWZ0MV43FF 7 hours ago |
    > there’s a liberating and freeing quality to the idea that this is a safe space for me to say unpopular things and not get labeled as a conservative or racist,” Lederer said.

    Tantalizing, now I really wonder what he said.

    • davidgerard 7 hours ago |
      looks like he just told us
      • ryandrake 6 hours ago |
        Exactly. "I really want to say conservative or racist things but don't want to be considered conservative or racist by the public!"
        • flappyeagle 5 hours ago |
          Do you think people on social media should be required to disclose their names?
          • llamaimperative 4 hours ago |
            I would love a real-names only network. There should be other networks as well, but this should be an option.
            • echelon 3 hours ago |
              We already have a few: LinkedIn and the real world.
              • llamaimperative 3 hours ago |
                LinkedIn is a professional network. It's not designed to facilitate the same types of conversations that happen e.g. on Twitter (and no, I don't think the presence of anon accounts make Twitter what it is, at least not in the circles I care about).

                "Real world" is umm... okay. Thanks for the contribution.

            • ryandrake 2 hours ago |
              A lot of people on Facebook use their real names, and back before I quit it, I was pretty shocked at the kinds of horrible things people would say under their real name and under a picture of their face, also, knowing full well their friends and family could easily see it. I don't think real names would help that much.
          • JKCalhoun 3 hours ago |
            I use mine. It keeps me honest.
      • pseudo0 3 hours ago |
        Lederer is the woman presented as an expert to criticize the practice...

        > Jenny Lederer, a linguistics professor at San Francisco State University, argued that the Chatham House Rule has intrinsic flaws.

    • jorams 7 hours ago |
      > this is a safe space for me to say unpopular things and not get labeled as a conservative

      The first one is confusing. The US is a very conservative country. It just elected a very conservative president. Statistically like 40% of voters call themselves conservative.

      • seabass-labrax 6 hours ago |
        If you look at voting maps for the 2024 USA Presidential Election, you can see that there is a blue band of Democratic voters right down the coast, including the Bay Area. The Bay Area in particular appears to have a very different culture to most of the USA, although I have never been there so cannot confirm that statement personally. I don't think that many Democratic party members consider themselves conservative, whereas a large proportion of Republican party members do.
        • crooked-v 5 hours ago |
          Mainstream Democrats are conservative, mainstream Republicans are regressive. There is no actual liberal-centric major political party in the US, let alone one that's genuinely leftist.
          • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
            > let alone one that's genuinely leftist

            There are plenty of elected leftists in America. We don’t have a major leftist party because we don’t have a major leftist voting bloc.

          • Aloisius 2 hours ago |
            What do you consider liberal-centric policies? Or leftist?

            As far as I'm aware, Democrats are still rather strong proponents of liberalism. Even most Republicans are proponents, though generally more for classical liberalism than modern liberalism.

            Liberalism, arguably, isn't really on the left-right axis at all.

        • eschaton 5 hours ago |
          Voting patterns in the US follow population density. The higher the density, the more Democratic voters there tend to be. It’s only if you look at geography that the US appears conservative; unfortunately, due to the Electoral College, “land” can effectively vote.
        • llamaimperative 4 hours ago |
          The “blue bands” is deceiving. Cities are mostly blue, rural areas are mostly red.
      • SoftTalker 2 hours ago |
        Trump is not conservative.
    • mmooss 6 hours ago |
      I thought conservatives were against safe spaces?
      • lisper 4 hours ago |
        Conservatives have been known to be a wee bit hypocritical from time to time.

        (To be fair, liberals can too, but IMHO conservatives are more adept at it.)

      • dh5 3 hours ago |
        I'm guessing this definition of a safe space (e.g. able to say what you want, with possible racism included) isn't what nonconservatives would label a safe space.
    • laidoffamazon 5 hours ago |
      If I were to guess, the types of conversations that happen in these places that aren't gutter racism (they're eating the dogs etc) are going to be eugenics-adjacent, "enlightened" scientific racism instead. At least, that's what I've noticed among rationalists online.
      • defrost 4 hours ago |
        Don't forget farming the normies for profit and other forms of enlightened classism.
      • invalidname 3 hours ago |
        > If I were to guess, the types of conversations that happen in these places that aren't gutter racism (they're eating the dogs etc) are going to be eugenics-adjacent, "enlightened" scientific racism instead. At least, that's what I've noticed among rationalists online.

        This statement is proof for the need of this rule. Everyone who disagrees with the "one truth" is obviously a racist who is aligned with the worst of the other side. There can be no deviation or nuance. No debate, or benefit of doubt.

        That is a deeply toxic view that in the past I only saw in the right. Maybe it was my own blindness. But now I see it all over the left as well.

      • pseudo0 3 hours ago |
        There are plenty of things you can say that are career limiting moves if attributed to an individual at a particular company. Eg. if an OpenAI employee says that ChatGPT is negatively impacting the education of children, it gets recorded, and then used in a hit piece against the company, that could go poorly. Or a Facebook employee speaking frankly about the negative impacts of social media, as another example.

        With Chatham House Rules you don't have to worry about a gotcha quote getting pulled out of context or used as a statement against interest.

        • doctorpangloss an hour ago |
          Negatively impacting is a bit of an understatement. It has completely and utterly ruined education of the middle, finishing what COVID started. The real question is when, not if, someone at OpenAI goes on the record to stop the madness.
    • gjm11 3 hours ago |
      I think Lederer (who, by the way, is a she) isn't saying that she herself wants to say those things, she's describing one reason why something like the Chatham House rule might be popular. It's not perfectly clear from the article, which may be because Lederer wasn't clear or because the reporter didn't pass on all the details of what Lederer said and how she said it.
  • JSTrading 7 hours ago |
    Are Chatham House Rules just a way for people to hedge their bets? If they say something controversial, rude, offensive, or downright dodgy, they can hide behind anonymity. But if it’s a hit or something clever, insightful, or widely praised—they’re quick to claim credit. Convenient, isn’t it?
    • falcor84 4 hours ago |
      It is indeed convenient, not just for individuals, but for society at large. People keep their most "controversial, rude, offensive, or downright dodgy" only to be said amongst friends whom they trust to not "out" them, while keeping their utterances in the public sphere more self-censored, in order to avoid offending people and being rebuked. I'm pretty sure that this is how it's always been, and I'm quite happy with it.
  • addicted 7 hours ago |
    I have no idea whether this is a good thing or a bad thing, but this is not freedom of speech, for the obvious reason that its based entirely on the limitation of speech, in this case, the freedom to truthfully state who said something.

    I’m not a free speech absolutist, so that’s not a negative for me, but it’s extremely annoying to see a lot of people pretend to be pro free speech by policing what others might say about them.

    • rlpb 7 hours ago |
      "Free speech" is normally about a government restriction on speech. Most people don't take it to mean temporary restrictions during specific private events.

      For example, at a funeral, the norm is not to speak ill of the dead (or any other time, for that matter), and if you break that rule, you might find yourself socially excluded. But that has nothing to do with the concept of "free speech".

      The same goes for some kind of proceeding where you are not permitted to speak, or some situation where you are given information in confidence, or your signing of an NDA.

      • bawolff 7 hours ago |
        In the usa context yes, but i think its wrong to hold that the concept in general is soley about governments.

        E.g. if someone beats you up due to a view you expressed, i consider that a free speech issue.

        • rlpb 7 hours ago |
          > E.g. if someone beats you up due to a view you expressed, i consider that a free speech issue.

          If the police beat you up, then that's a freedom of speech issue (as well as police abuse, etc), since one might argue that the government is suppressing your speech.

          If a private citizen beats you up, then I disagree; it's merely a matter of assault. That's illegal anyway and your speech had little to do with it. If someone beats me up for looking at them the wrong way, I'd hardly argue that it's a "looking the wrong way" issue.

          I appreciate that you consider otherwise, and of course it's subjective so your view is as valid as mine. I'm just identifying that I think your concept is "creep" that has occurred over time for some subset of people, spawned by a principle that never originally included what you now include in the concept.

          • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
            If you come to my house and express a view I disagree with, and I ask you to stop talking, I'm abridging your freedom of speech. (I'm not violating your First Amendment rights.)

            > I think your concept is "creep" that has occurred over time for some subset of people, spawned by a principle that never originally included what you now include in the concept

            You've got it backwards. The Athenians believed in both "isēgoriā, or equality of public speech, which was associated with formal political institutions and democratic deliberation; and parrhēsiā, the license to say anything, even (or especially) if it went against the current" [1].

            The First Amendment is based on the freedom of speech in the English Parliament [2]. Millenia older. It isn't until the Warren Court, after WWII, that the modern interpretation that the First Amendment prohibits the government from censoring speech comes into focus [3].

            [1] https://antigonejournal.com/2021/04/two-concepts-of-free-spe...

            [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declaration_of_Right,_1689#The...

            [3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech_in_the_Unite...

            • seabass-labrax 7 hours ago |
              > If you come to my house and express a view I disagree with, and I ask you to stop talking, I'm abridging your freedom of speech.

              To what extent are you able to abridge someone's freedom, though? The only legally permitted thing you can do is to compel that person to leave. If you are hosting that person commercially, say by running a lodging house, even that option may be restricted by other laws.

              Legal restrictions on speech are a little different, because of the unlimited sovereign power of the law (what Max Weber called the state's monopoly on violence). The USA has a special limitation on its own sovereignty by means of a written constitution, but I do believe that only applies to government restrictions as parent said.

              Also, it is worth noting that the freedom of speech in Britain that you link to applies only to Members of Parliament. Nobody else is afforded freedom of speech by the Bill of Rights; other people have to look to different laws to defend themselves.

              • JumpCrisscross 6 hours ago |
                > To what extent are you able to abridge someone's freedom, though

                I could ask them to leave, I could threaten to not invite them back, I could withhold something they want or might want in the future. Social sanctions are vast.

                > it is worth noting that the freedom of speech in Britain that you link to applies only to Members of Parliament

                Yes. That is the first time a First Amendment-style protection was passed into law. The modern view of freedom of speech being constrained to what the state can and cannot do starts from around then.

          • bawolff 6 hours ago |
            > I'm just identifying that I think your concept is "creep" that has occurred over time for some subset of people, spawned by a principle that never originally included what you now include in the concept.

            Fair, but I think the creep is in the other direction. I think that this notion that only the government counts is extremely new (and somewhat limited to the cultural context of the USA) and the broader version is the traditional definition of what freedom of speech means.

          • blackeyeblitzar 4 hours ago |
            In your example, speech has everything to do with it. It is the motivation for the crime of assault, correct? And its intention is to suppress speech by deterring others through violence.
        • Aaargh20318 7 hours ago |
          Free speech only means you are not prevented from expressing yourself. It does not mean freedom from consequences.

          While I don’t condone violence that is not the only possible consequence. If you call me an asshole that is your right, but if I disinvite you from the party I was planning as a result that is not a ‘free speech issue’.

          • bawolff 6 hours ago |
            > Free speech only means you are not prevented from expressing yourself. It does not mean freedom from consequences.

            People say this a lot but i doubt anyone actually literally believes this.

            If the state executes you as a consequence of your speech, it is an unambigious free speech violation no matter how you interpret that term.

            What people really mean is its not a blanket protection against every consequence, but they hide that part because then you have to explain which consequences are reasonable and which are not which is complicated and requires nuance.

      • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
        > "Free speech" is normally about a government restriction on speech

        No, this is the First Amendment. Free speech as a value is much broader [1].

        [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech

      • blackeyeblitzar 7 hours ago |
        I don’t think it is just about government restriction. Free speech and censorship are general principles that apply to everything. But personally, I don’t think asking for confidentiality at a private event is a violation of free speech principles. On the other hand, large privately owned tech platforms that practice censorship disguised as moderation, should be criticized because they are effectively the new public square.
    • bawolff 7 hours ago |
      Being able to chose who you associate with and who you do not associate is usually part and parcel with free speech.

      I'd agree with you about the NDA bit. Using courts to enforce seems anti-free speech

      However the milder version of it, where if someone violates the rule they aren't invited back, hardly seems like a free speech issue. Free speech doesn't mean you have to stay friends with someone who told your secrets to a third party. Free speech means you can say whatever you want, but it also means you can not talk to whomever you want.

    • defrost 7 hours ago |
      The Chatham House Rule is about

      \0 in the context of a specific meeting or gathering ..

      \1 the freedom to speak one's mind and say whatever it is you wish to say,

      \2 the constraint that no third party shall repeat your words without your permission, quote you out of context, report what you said and the company in which you said it, etc.

      There's no legal binding or specific prosecution in the original context, simply a literal "Gentleman's Agreement" and the general social implication that should you make and then violate such an agreement then you will likely be excluded from similar events and such company in future.

      It arose from diplomatic ranks and is a polite form of the parallel convention Snitches get Stitches.

      In the UK Foreign Affairs sphere the rule is often exercised to advance a piece of policy via rumour and backtalk, nobody officially directly states that (for example) the military may be bought into play in some region, none the less word gets out that such a thing is being considered by those that can make it happen, subsequently someone folds their position and trade resumes (maybe).

    • s1artibartfast 4 hours ago |
      Freedom includes the ability to voluntarily subject oneself to obligations and enter binding contracts.
  • michaelt 7 hours ago |
    > [At] an intimate dinner party in Los Altos Hills, Brex Supper Club salons, [...] the rules of the house are increasingly Chatham.

    What a strange comment.

    If after attending a dinner party people are repeating everything they heard, in public, with attribution - then that dinner party absolutely was not intimate.

    • JumpCrisscross 7 hours ago |
      > If after attending a dinner party people are repeating everything they heard, in public, with attribution - then that dinner party absolutely was not intimate

      It's still helpful if you're bringing together groups of people who don't know (and thus may surprise) each other to lay the ground rules. I'd be quite upset if I held a birthday party, which may go to 30 or 40 people, and learned that something (possibly quite inappropriate) that had been said was being tweeted or whatever.

      • tom_ 5 hours ago |
        Right, but if these groups of people don't know one another - that's basically the definition of not intimate.
        • JumpCrisscross 5 hours ago |
          > if these groups of people don't know one another - that's basically the definition of not intimate

          Different definitions of intimate [1]. Webster's gives an intimate club as an example. I'd also suggest an intimate dinner over which e.g. in-laws meet.

          [1] https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/intimate

  • motohagiography 7 hours ago |
    It means don't front, slander, or gossip about the people who welcomed you, and especially on social media. not sure why it's hard to act like they're going to be invited back. just try not to be the one who has to be told.
  • mmooss 6 hours ago |
    It's nothing impressive. It's secrecy and corruption; it's the modern trend of power grabs and exclusivity (withholding information) over efficiency, productivity, intelligence, and all the benefits of an open, free society. It just has a fancy British name to give it legitimacy.

    You want liquidity and lots of exposure in any marketplace, including the one of ideas. Ideas without sunshine tend to rot and fester. That might be why there are so many obviously stupid ones these days.

    • JumpCrisscross 4 hours ago |
      > Ideas without sunshine tend to rot and fester. That might be why there are so many obviously stupid ones these days.

      This was the thesis behind e.g. Twitter. I’m not sure it’s panned out. Ideas need sunshine, but a seedling also does better in a nursery.

  • mmooss 6 hours ago |
    > Last year, Stanford University floated the rule as a policy to protect students from harassment, with violators facing penalties like lower grades.

    Won't that enable harassment - enable people to do it without consequence?

  • TheBruceHimself 6 hours ago |
    I think it’s just a way to stop the reporting of an event turning the event into an opportunity for people to gain media coverage and propel their careers, or their interests that may not be related to the discussion at hand.

    Public debates are swamped with characters who want to make a name for themselves by holding views, having a particular style, or catering to certain demographics. At this point, the debate ceases to ne a way of discussing ideas and opinions. It’s just a way to sell the participants. Likewise, there are many people who want the opposite. They hold opinions but really don’t want to be part of the wider social debate . They don’t want to be public figures defending a particular point. They just want to contribute in some way.

  • scyzoryk_xyz 4 hours ago |
    More like stupid is suddenly everywhere in the Bay Area.

    The one fine piece of good journalism in there is that SFSU professor: humans have a hard time separating the ideas from the speaker. Done.

    Now, I might be wrong, but it sure does sound like tech folks in the Bay are getting ready to take advantage of MAGA madness, and paranoid about AI / surveillance.

    If anything, it’s this orange website that’s closer to untangling identity from the content, but that’s nothing new and Web 1.0 news.

    • dmix 3 hours ago |
      > but it sure does sound like tech folks in the Bay are getting ready to take advantage of MAGA madness, and paranoid about AI / surveillance.

      Congress is the one that regulates most of commerce and they are always slow and inept. I don’t expect much meaningful stuff to change. If anything it will be some sort of AI regulation that will benefit the top companies under the guise of ‘safety’ and probably get bipartisan support.

      Zuckerberg also said he was planning his moves for a long time and waited until the elections were over so it didn’t seem like he was trying to influence it and any time he announced it he’d have been be accused of doing it under political pressure. That’s also how fact checking started in the first place, with extreme pressure during COVID and federal gov employees calling meta employees, yelling at them when they declined to delete things. So technically it’s a reversion of a system created under political pressure.

      • dcrazy 3 hours ago |
        I woildn’t trust a damn thing Zuckerberg says about his thought process.
  • dcrazy 3 hours ago |
    Denunciations of the Chatham House Rule seem underdeveloped. According to the history on Wikipedia, it was invented to let members of post-WW1 English civic society discuss and debate potential reforms, and then get as much of that discussion into the public record as desired without having individual members pilloried for things they said during the discussion, even if the rest of the group disagreed with them.

    This doesn’t even seem unique. Newspaper editorial boards don’t assign individual names to editorials or sentences thereof. Individual members of Congressional commissions aren’t cited for the sentences they (or their staff) committed to reports.

    Chatham House Rule, meet Chesterton’s Fence.

    • echelon 3 hours ago |
      The easy solution to this in my state is to just wear a recording device.

      I live in a one party consent state for the recording of conversations [1,2], whether on the phone or in person. I don't know how y'all get away without it in California. It pairs really well with free speech, and it feels wrong to not have this legal feature available.

      [1] https://www.justia.com/50-state-surveys/recording-phone-call...

      [2] https://www.dmlp.org/legal-guide/georgia-recording-law

      • dcrazy 3 hours ago |
        The easy solution to what? I’m saying lack of like individual line-item attribution is a feature.
        • echelon 3 hours ago |
          It feels incompatible with how the rest of the legal framework works.

          You can be recorded in public.

          In most of the US states you can be recorded in private so long as the one recording is a party to the conversation.

          Why does California do this separate weird thing? It doesn't feel like my rights should go away when I cross into your state. It feels like a glitch.

          • dcrazy 3 hours ago |
            The Chatham House Rule is not a legal principle. If you violate it by recording a meeting in a one-party consent state, the most likely consequence is that you wouldn’t be invited back. (Someone else posited legal consequences under contract law, but I’m not a lawyer.)

            And for the record, California is not the only two-party consent state. There are twelve others.

          • Aurornis an hour ago |
            It’s not a legal thing at all. It’s a social agreement that people opt into at an event.

            Legally you can go to an event and act in bad faith without breaking the law. That’s not cool, but you’re not getting arrested for it.

            If (or when) word gets out that you’re breaking the rules, or worse, secretly recording people against their wishes then you’d find yourself excluded from those groups and private events.

      • adbachman 2 hours ago |
        "Chatham House Rules" is not a problem that needs solving. I've only seen it used as a courtesy extended by peers to each other out of mutual respect.

        "We will have conversations and share information and we agree we can act on the information but would all prefer not to be directly quoted or have the information we shared be shared with others outside the meeting."

        It's not legal, it's social.

        Break trust with a wiretap (really?) and you'll just find yourself no longer invited to the fun places.

        • dcrazy an hour ago |
          > "We will have conversations and share information and we agree we can act on the information but would all prefer not to be directly quoted or have the information we shared be shared with others outside the meeting."

          My understanding is that the Chatham House rule specifically permits sharing the information shared in the meeting as long as it is not attributed to any specific attendee.

      • Aurornis an hour ago |
        If you don’t plan on following the rule, you don’t need a recording device.

        Rules like this are an agreement among friends or attendants at an even. If you go in to such an event with an awareness of the rules but an intent to go against them, that’s bad faith. If you go in to such an event with an intent to secretly record people and release recordings of them that’s just terrible behavior, regardless of what the law says.

  • yowayb 3 hours ago |
    Modern human life is built upon millenia of mistakes, not to mention natural selection, which is eons of mistakes. A huge differentiator for humans is vastly more powerful communication which let's us share and influence instead of having everyone make the same mistakes. Despite the vitriol that has plagued online forums and social media for decades, I find the opportunity to see others make mistakes hugely valuable to me. That includes saying stupid or wrong things.
  • ghaff 3 hours ago |
    There was a period when I was having fairly regular luncheon meetings in New York and the purpose was really so that people could talk openly about various tech issues and not have their name appear in a blog post (which I probably wouldn't have done anyway). It wasn't so people could spill dirt or say things that could get them in trouble with HR if they appeared in pront.

    Maybe overused today but there are some times when you hold back on things if you know they may appear in print. Certainly, over the years, I've been quite careful about what I say to journalists--even those I generally trust.

  • smashah 2 hours ago |
    Are all the contrarian lemmings having self-imposed nightmares of being cancelled for eagerly sucking on the DoD teat by backing/creating AI killer drone tech because they can no longer create alpha? Say it ain't so! Or maybe it's just another hyped trend, like reading Sapiens or calling oneself a "pattern matcher".

    Odds are they're not talking about saving the world in these spaces.

  • nullc 2 hours ago |
    I've seen the existence of chatham house rules events abused pretty heavily by bullshitters as an excuse for asserting things but then refusing to substantiate them.
  • jandrewrogers an hour ago |
    This is not new. Many of the mailing lists that dominated the discourse of the early Internet in the 1990s operated under a similar rule. The novelty is that it disappeared almost entirely for decades.

    The original purpose (on the Internet) was to create a space where complex ethical and moral questions could be explored and discussed in depth without risk of someone taking a hypothetical statement out of context to slander you, as people are wont to do. It would be orders of magnitude worse in this current age of people obsessed with generating click-bait for engagement, which wasn’t a thing back then. I personally found that environment to be intellectually stimulating and rigorous, I miss the standard of discourse of those days.

    Chatham House Rule is going back to the old Internet, which valued novel insight and reasoned discourse highly, before the masses took over the Internet. The purpose was not to enable edgelords. Rational defense of ideas, statements, and hypotheses was expected and table stakes. Related rules of that era, such as Crocker’s Rule[0], placed responsibility on the reader to address uncomfortable or offensive feedback in the most dispassionate way possible.

    [0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12881288